What to say when everyone else's life looks better online

You don’t need a plan or a script tonight, just a few honest sentences you can say out loud, right when it counts.

Say this tonight

What you're seeing is everyone's best five seconds, not their whole day.
Put the phone down for a bit and tell me what's actually going on.
Your real life doesn't have to compete with anyone's highlight reel.

Naming the feed as edited, not real, is what loosens its grip more than banning it does.

The story says the rest

In their story, a character puts the screen down for a while and notices something real, a place, a feeling, a person, without the story ever lecturing about screens.

It ends with the character quietly getting their own sense of what matters back, on their own terms.

Create their story

Read more: Stories and Self-Esteem: Building a Steadier Sense of Self

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